I had a dream in the enclosed room
that I woke up in a nursing home
waiting for someone to cut my cheese
to bring me liquids
to help me to the bathroom
to pretend to listen
as I failed to speak
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I had a dream I dare not tell you
not like the other dreams
I would not tell you
I had a dream of being in a nursing home
unable to die
yet dreaming of death
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Let this Poem be a living will, then‘
That this would be my time
to meet Dr. Kevorkian
That I do not want an extra five years
of a % life
of a life that does not
equal
living.
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In this sour one room suite
I cursed myself for giving up
drinking, smoking, and whoring
much too early
I wanted, at least, a cigarette
how could it hurt
how could anything hurt
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I thought of my grandfather
who died slowly
in degrees of amputation
and forced myself to remember him whole
full of life and dream
relating how he fled the cold Ukraine
through the frigid snow
to where they caught the Ellis Island boat
by the last time of the telling
the snow had become 85 feet in height
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My father, his son,
died quickly
age 72
heart attack, stroke, whatever
a few days after the hospital
said he was fine
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It has been seven years since his
quick
death.
Some nights I still dream we speak.
One night it will not be a dream.
But I have time yet before then.
I have time and tide to cross
many malls to meet
would Frost say now.
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Her mother died the morning before
she was to go to the home.
Maybe she knew
and decided she would not go.
By then, it was not possible to
know what she knew
know what she wanted
know what she dreamed. ,/
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That has been a year now ‘
and it is a big fat lie
that time does indeed
make these times easier.
I dreamt on a Thursday Night
after night school class
that I woke up in a Nursing Home
waiting for someone to cut my cheese
no cats, no dogs, no Paula
it was too late then,
to cry for what I haven’t done
haven’t been
for the father I haven’t been for my daughter
and I couldn’t cry
in a dream
or in a
nursing home
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This is only a Poem
It means very little
once the reading of it is done.
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Bob Small 9-24-95